I need to vent...

Ok, something has been eating away at me since yesterday morning...

I just don't appreciate it when I'm given a look that says closed-minded and judgemental ALL over it. How my relationship is going and what steps we have made thus far should NOT trigger those facial expressions.

Yes, I suppose to people from the outside, we're moving "fast," but I guess the only way I can explain it is this way: When you know, you just know. He's the one that was meant to be with me and I'm the one who is meant to be with him. I guess people who have been in the "when you know, you just know" situation understand where I'm at more clearly than those that haven't found "the one" yet. So, with that said, I'll give them the benefit of the doubt. Which is what I've been doing since October, but each time any little fun story comes up about us, I get a weird face and a weird tone of voice that goes with it. It just dampens my excitement.

I can't expect everyone to be excited for me or with me, but being that there's only ONE person that gives me these facial expressions and condescending tones, it makes me feel bad for that person. One should be as open-minded as humanly possible. Everyone's entitled to their opinions, I get that. It's just that some consideration should be made about how one would make the other person feel.

I guess I'm feeling this way because I'm the friend that would love to share another's excitement without any form of condescending tones or possibly jealousy. And I kind of expect the same sort of friendship in return. It's sad because, now I'm just compelled to not say anything about the relationship at all. It is, frankly, our business and no one else's, but when it comes to exciting, big news, i can't help but share a few stories here and there. To avoid drama and to avoid unnecessary confrontations, I'll just choose who I talk to carefully. It's kind of sad that it has to be that way, but I just don't want to get that feeling of someone raining on my parade ever again. So that can just simply be accomplished by keeping my mouth shut. I've kept my mouth shut about the intimate details, because those should remain private and always will be. But to not be able to share little stories here and there without getting the raised eyebrows and the doubtful tones of voice? That just simply sucks. Oh well.

The two people that are in the relationship are the ONLY ones that REALLY know how right or wrong everything is and should not be judged by anyone from the outside.

That's all I have for now. I just needed to take the time to vent on here.

Thanks for listening (reading)!

I feel better now that's all off my chest! Yippeeeee! :D

XoXo,
Liblet

P.S.
If anything else pops in my head regarding this, I'll blog it again later. Until then, have a fabulous day! =)